The War On Love

Sep 26, 2025

The war on love…

First up… What is love?

I believe a successful life depends on you finding and protecting your love…

Yep, there goes a few readers… it’s a little uncomfortable but for those still reading, let’s explore…

Right now I believe there is a war on love…

A war where almost everything is being questioned… beliefs challenged and therefore endless division…

The problem with this is that this triggers something deep.

Our fear to stand alone, to stand true to our real self…

However, the act of being strong enough to stand alone infact allows the most beautiful outcome…

People gather around.

The counterintuitive approach of being willing to stand alone is infect the best tool to realign and attract others at the same frequency.

I chat to people for a living. Yes, coaching, mentoring but really it’s much much more…

We go deep, we explore life, love and showing up…

The work I do is a deep exploration into us as humans. Helping the evolution of humanity one piece at a time…

This requires us to see truth in what makes us tick and help us move forward.

And honestly… it used to be simple… but now it seems to get more complicated by the week…

The challenges through division is so much that there are no longer simple sides. There are now exponential combination of aspects…

and this is the beauty…

From a higher perspective, holding multiple levels of observation all at once, you can see a beautiful thing in the making…

LOVE…

What are we really seeking…

What are we really disappointed about in conflict?

The distance from love. Conflict is separation… Love is unity…

I believe it’s the ultimate search…

Love…

But where? Is it under a rock?

It’s something you are handed… Is it something you create?

Is it something you become?

Love…

Is it a feeling? Is it a state? Is it an operating system? Is it internal, external, collective…

And what would our life look like if we operated from a place of love?

There is this concept of… as an entrepreneur, especially an online personal brand, you need to protect your confidence.

While i used to believe this to be true…

I discovered that this is actually not where the power lies…

I believe that love precedes confidence…

And actually I think authenticity precedes love.

(I also believe authenticity precedes abundance too… )

So, what is love?

What is true authentic love?

And the big one… does it need another person or simply within…

I believe it first starts within, then available to be shared and reflected and amplified…

But what is it…

In the recent years I’ve had hundreds of conversations with beautiful people around these topics…

And everyone’s discussion is different… because everyone wears a different shade of love sunglasses…

Deep chats, things that you cannot see of the surface… but a resonance and frequency acknowledgement…

Amazing conversations…

Things that are hard to put into words… but people who know get it in few words…

It’s like those things in life that are hard to explain to people who have not experienced it…

Like explaining riding a wave on a surfboard…

Or the amazing sensation of skimming across the ocean standing on a board being pulled by the beauty of wind nature provides…

Then expand that when dolphins, whales, stingrays, fish or turtles come and join your experience…

Pure joy… pure love…

Peace within, the love to share…

To experience this gift of life in its full spectrum…

The soul smiles…

Tick…

Another magical human experience to add to this lifetime…

True peaceful love…

Without any validation… simply a love of being human…

Simply to love being you…

Then the magic happens…

The frequency of authenticity resonates out.

The frequency of your love resonates out…

Any you just simply own you… your full self in its current state.

And then physics kicks in…

Frequencies that no longer match no longer occupy the same space… but matching frequencies lock in effortlessly…

A harmony… a beautiful magic of like true connection…

And this is the place of love…

You be you…

No hierarchy, no I’m better than you, no judgement, no comparisons…

Simply a match…

And then time stops… and the world reshapes around this new place from which to operate…

The invitation…

How authentic are you being to your souls calling?

How honest are you being with your soul?

Where can you be brave and shine a light and be more you…

Explore those shadows and truly own yourself…

And then

Operate from that place. Hold that truth… no matter what the consequences…

That’s bravery. And these people are awesome… and they hang out together…

The secret… how can you make your higher self proud?

Only you are the judge…

Own your choices, past and present and future…

And from this place is where true authentic love, happiness and joy lies…

Be you, the hardest and easiest thing to do…

You don’t need external validation, in fact seeking it is proving the opposite…

Love yourself, sonyou can love orhers, sit in that frequency, and watch the magic of life unfold.  People and opportunities reserved only for the brave…

Your soul is cheering you on

What do you think? Sound like a way of life worth living