Smile laugh and keep going

What I find really interesting... there are many posts I have seen recently where people look like they are living the dream, life is amazing, smiles, ocean, follow me, be like me and in reality...

I know for a fact their life is miserable, their world is in turmoil, kids, partners everything is a mess.

Before you spend time investing your trust or dreams in someone really get to know them.

Look for cracks in their story. Ask real friends of theirs with to reason to give you the rose coloured version...

I see this more and more in social media and I believe that it is a form of fraud. Dishonesty and false positioning...

Would they invite you into their home? Would they be proud to show you how their day really unfolds.

Would they invite you and your kids to come and play with their kids to show with full transparency what their life is really like...

I have many dear friends with huge followings who are exactly the same when we hand out in person, at their own home with kids and partners, are they are behind a camera... I know where their heart lies and they are true to them self and their audience.

Then there are the others... whose lives are ‘misleading’ their audience.

I have seen it for a while, but it really annoys me when unknowing people follow someone with trust with a false front.

Test people’s apparent core values and see if they crack...

When you read someone’s story or update, look for the parts they leave out..

I am not thinking of anyone in particular, but I am getting this feeling more and more frequently these days and I feel sorry for the people who feel disappointed or disheartened their life isn’t like these other people...

Your world is perfectly fine and can I even offer, that your world, in total, maybe more fine that the person you are comparing yourself to...

Remember if you want to be like someone else you need to swap everything in their life for everything in theirs. Relationships, kids, friends, experiences etc...

When we look at life through that lens it brings in an appreciation for ourself...

Well done 🙂  you are doing a great job... keep going... I think you are doing way better in whatever you want to achieve that what you give yourself credit for 🙂

Smile laugh and keep going 🙂